Monday, February 15, 2016
New Website!
Hello All - I have switched over to sharing on a new website! If you would like to keep following what I am up to, check out: https://overthehorizion.wordpress.com Thank you!
Monday, February 1, 2016
Week One In A New Country
For me the last week has been a whirlwind. Adjusting to life here in Sofia, Bulgaria has been an adventure since arriving on January 25. There have been so many highlights already but I will try to be brief as I update you on how things have gone.
On January 24, I left Dallas, Texas and flew to Frankfurt, Germany, for the first stage of my travel. After a long and rough flight I landed very motion sick. Due to my sickness, I missed my original connecting flight to Sofia and was scheduled to leave later that same day. I arrived in Sofia, Bulgaria the evening of January 25. After my tiring journey it was such a relief to have my feet on solid ground. I was picked up from the airport by some colleagues and after arriving at their home, my host family was so gracious and allowed to get a good night's rest.
Tuesday, mid-morning, I started my week off at a run. I was taken to the grocery store, a place to exchange money, the metro to buy an unlimited transportation card (for the metro, trolley, and bus systems), and was given the chance to visit Sofia Christian Academy. It was a long but wonderful first day and with my desire to take everything in, I neglected to get any pictures.
Wednesday I prepared and travelled to Thessaloniki, Greece, with a few colleagues and a local lawyer, to submit my visa application. Although it was a fast 24-hour trip there and back, I had a great time! Some of the highlights of the trip included: seeing the gorgeous Greek architecture, walking along the Mediterranean Sea, and eating an authentic Greek salad!
Friday I went up to the school all day and was able to observe my fellow teachers lead their classes. They did a wonderful job of orienting me and explaining how I will fit into the existing system. I was also able to meet the students and their parents! Everyone was so kind and welcoming! This coming week I will observe some more and will officially begin teaching alongside the other teachers on February 9th.
Saturday I was able to sleep in then walk around Sofia with one of my housemates and fellow teachers. We visited the nearby mall, went grocery shopping, and got coffee together. It was a wonderful time of fellowship! Sunday I attended the local international Baptist church with some friends. I enjoyed worship with a local body of Christ! It was a wonderful way to start of the week!
Overall, it has been a wonderful and transitional week! Everywhere I go there are new sights, smells, and sounds to experience! It has been nice to try new things as well as learn about the places I can access the comforts of home! I am so excited and eager to see what the next months hold and how the Lord will use me in this new place!
Some current prayer requests include:
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| Leaving for Bulgaria! |
Tuesday, mid-morning, I started my week off at a run. I was taken to the grocery store, a place to exchange money, the metro to buy an unlimited transportation card (for the metro, trolley, and bus systems), and was given the chance to visit Sofia Christian Academy. It was a long but wonderful first day and with my desire to take everything in, I neglected to get any pictures.
Wednesday I prepared and travelled to Thessaloniki, Greece, with a few colleagues and a local lawyer, to submit my visa application. Although it was a fast 24-hour trip there and back, I had a great time! Some of the highlights of the trip included: seeing the gorgeous Greek architecture, walking along the Mediterranean Sea, and eating an authentic Greek salad!
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The Mediterranean Sea
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Fun with New Friends
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| The view on the drive to Greece |
Friday I went up to the school all day and was able to observe my fellow teachers lead their classes. They did a wonderful job of orienting me and explaining how I will fit into the existing system. I was also able to meet the students and their parents! Everyone was so kind and welcoming! This coming week I will observe some more and will officially begin teaching alongside the other teachers on February 9th.
Saturday I was able to sleep in then walk around Sofia with one of my housemates and fellow teachers. We visited the nearby mall, went grocery shopping, and got coffee together. It was a wonderful time of fellowship! Sunday I attended the local international Baptist church with some friends. I enjoyed worship with a local body of Christ! It was a wonderful way to start of the week!
Overall, it has been a wonderful and transitional week! Everywhere I go there are new sights, smells, and sounds to experience! It has been nice to try new things as well as learn about the places I can access the comforts of home! I am so excited and eager to see what the next months hold and how the Lord will use me in this new place!
Some current prayer requests include:
- Health - That my recovery from jet-lag will go quickly and allow for good, quality sleep.
- Teaching - That I can have a smooth beginning to my teaching efforts at SCA.
- Transition - That the Lord will continue to lead and guide as I transition to life here in Sofia.
Thank you so much for your continued prayers and support! They mean so very much! Blessings!
Friday, January 8, 2016
The News You've All Been Waiting For...
I know, you've been sitting on the edge of your seat, awaiting an update on my trip to Bulgaria, like you may wait expectantly to see the ending of your favorite television show... It has been a grueling and crazy eight months in the making yet the day has finally come.
I am thrilled to announce that I am officially leaving for Sofia, Bulgaria on January 24, 2016! Praise the Lord! First, I would like to thank you for your role in my journey to this point! I so deeply have appreciated all of your gifts, prayers, and sincere questions. They have meant more to me than you know!
Once arriving in Sofia, I will take a few days to rest and recuperate from my travel. Following that I will commence work at Sofia Christian Academy (SCA), where I will be assisting and overseeing the language arts portion of education for a wonderful group of first through fifth graders. Alongside my work at SCA I may also be helping out with additional team responsibilities. However, with ever-changing ministry needs, my portion of these tasks are still to be determined.
Just recently, my budget was drastically reduced by Mission to the World to help me travel sooner and I was given a newly designated title of Volunteer Intern. My new budget, with the funds that have been received, are enough to cover my travel costs and basic needs. However, some costs not included in my intern budget are: international insurance, personal (non-food) purchases, souvenirs/gifts for family and friends, and tourist travel/activities.
If you would like to give to help cover these costs (and any others that may arise) gifts can be sent to:
I would greatly appreciate prayer as I prepare and travel to Sofia. Below are listed a few specific prayer requests:
I am thrilled to announce that I am officially leaving for Sofia, Bulgaria on January 24, 2016! Praise the Lord! First, I would like to thank you for your role in my journey to this point! I so deeply have appreciated all of your gifts, prayers, and sincere questions. They have meant more to me than you know!
Once arriving in Sofia, I will take a few days to rest and recuperate from my travel. Following that I will commence work at Sofia Christian Academy (SCA), where I will be assisting and overseeing the language arts portion of education for a wonderful group of first through fifth graders. Alongside my work at SCA I may also be helping out with additional team responsibilities. However, with ever-changing ministry needs, my portion of these tasks are still to be determined.
Just recently, my budget was drastically reduced by Mission to the World to help me travel sooner and I was given a newly designated title of Volunteer Intern. My new budget, with the funds that have been received, are enough to cover my travel costs and basic needs. However, some costs not included in my intern budget are: international insurance, personal (non-food) purchases, souvenirs/gifts for family and friends, and tourist travel/activities.
If you would like to give to help cover these costs (and any others that may arise) gifts can be sent to:
219 Tanglewood Drive, Duncanville, Texas 75116
Please note that Mission to the World is no longer accepting gifts on my behalf and gifts sent to the above address are not tax deductible.
- Visa - That all of my required documents arrive before my departure. I will also have to take an overnight trip to Greece, during my time in Bulgaria, to finalize and process my visa paperwork. Please pray that this time goes smoothly.
- Health - That I will remain healthy throughout the course of travel and bounce back quickly from any jet lag.
- That the Lord would calm my nerves and prepare me to serve and share his love with others!
Thank you in advance for your continued prayers and support! Without a strong support system, like you, this opportunity would not be possible! While I am overseas I do not intend to send physical update newsletters. I may write a few email updates but my blog and Facebook will be my primary place of sharing! Please check back often to find out how God is working in and through me in the months to come!
Tuesday, November 3, 2015
An Update: How Support Is Going and How You Can Help
As you know, it is officially November and without a doubt, I am sure that everyone of you connects that to Thanksgiving. How could you not? What a wonderful holiday to spend reflecting on the things for which we are grateful!
This year, I am thrilled to share my gratitude and thanks for the incredible team of supporters that have come alongside me during the fundraising portion of my trip to Bulgaria! They have been an amazing source of encouragement, support, and prayer! To those of you that have given toward my trip and prayed for me, thank you!
Over the next few weeks my commitment is to give you a regular update on my progress financially as well as highlight a letter from one of the families at Sofia Christian Academy, sharing why my presence at SCA is important to them.
Today I would like to share with you my goals. For reference though, here is my progress so far. Over the last two and a half months, the amount raised toward my trip to Bulgaria has been $8,042 out of my (revised) budget of $25,600. In more simplistic terms, this means that I am 31.4% fundraised! Praise the Lord!
Here is the plan - My overall goal is to be teaching at Sofia Christian Academy for the upcoming spring semester. For that to happen, I really need to be fully funded before the end of 2015. So, if I could be at 65% fundraised before Thanksgiving and then 100% by Christmas I believe that would give me time needed to make it to Bulgaria for the spring semester. What does that look like in dollar signs? To be at 65% fundraised and to meet my first goal, I need to have raised approximately $16,600 in total by Thanksgiving.
I believe that with the Lord’s help, the funds can be raised. He has called me and he will provide! How can you get involved? If you would like to play a role in my ministry, here is how you can:
- Prayer Support - Prayer has such a crucial role in my ministry! To keep updated on current prayer requests, keep checking here, on my blog.
- Financial Support - To give toward my ministry go online to donations.mtw.org and use my account number #11442.
Thank you for your support, encouragement, and prayers! The Lord has blessed me so deeply through you and I am so grateful!
Wednesday, September 9, 2015
Update on Fundraising for My Bulgaria Trip
It has been a while since I first announced my intentions to pursue a missions opportunity, serving as a teacher in Sofia, Bulgaria. Since then I have been blessed to have a wonderful group of people surround me as prayer and financial partners. With their assistance and support I have reached %12 of my total fundraising goal!!
Unfortunately however, this still leaves a significant amount needed. If you are interested in supporting me, through prayer or finances, I would love to know!
If you would like to give to my ministry, donations can be given online at donations.mtw.org. My account number for reference is #11442.
If you would like to remember me in prayer, some current prayer requests include:
- Financial Provision (That the Lord would provide in his timing for my trip).
- Peace and Patience While I Wait to Leave
- A continued great start of the school year for Sophia Christian Academy
Thank you so much for your prayers, support, and encouragement! You mean so much to me!
Unfortunately however, this still leaves a significant amount needed. If you are interested in supporting me, through prayer or finances, I would love to know!
If you would like to give to my ministry, donations can be given online at donations.mtw.org. My account number for reference is #11442.
If you would like to remember me in prayer, some current prayer requests include:
- Financial Provision (That the Lord would provide in his timing for my trip).
- Peace and Patience While I Wait to Leave
- A continued great start of the school year for Sophia Christian Academy
Thank you so much for your prayers, support, and encouragement! You mean so much to me!
Wednesday, August 12, 2015
Embracing The Next Chapter - Sweet Sisterhood
Why is it that every time I sit in the airport I want to blog?
Perhaps it is because I finally am forced to sit and...oh dear, think. Or maybe, it is because there are so many people around that spark genuine creativity and thought.
Who knows?
Anyway, besides, that is kind of besides the point...
Okay, so what am I doing in an airport again, you ask? Well, I'm headed to a wedding - my younger sister Elsie's wedding! It is real crazy to think that she has matured into such a beautiful bride-to-be! I am so excited for her and unbelievably proud!
No, don't think I am taking any credit for her maturity or accomplishments. That is not what we are here to talk about. (Side note though: I can promise you though - All the glory goes to God for the amazing woman she has turned into.)
Honestly however, Elsie has been such an inspiration, encouragement, and joy to have in my life.
From the start Morelle, Elsie and I were pals (trail twinnzies). We are all close in age and I like to think have always been partners in crime. We were rad together. When Adelaide came along we became the fearsome-foursome - the unstoppable Cummins sisters. (Wait... You didn't realize this was going to be a sappy sister post. Oops! Sorry!)
Anyways, over the years us Cummins girls (and boys) have grown and changed (and at times grown apart - remember, we are not perfect). We've laughed, cried, camped, climbed, run, and Skyped our way through life.
Together we have jointly lived in (soon to be) five states (and two different countries) and often been apart. We have spent days, weeks, and months separated, and yet always come back together stronger. At points we fell asleep upset at each other but always awoke to realize that sisterhood means more than a meaningless grudge.
We are not a picture-perfect family but we have plenty of pictures (of wonderful memories)! And those memories that we have made mean more to me now than ever before!
See...
Morelle and Matthew were married in May and are now living and working in Oklahoma.
Elsie and Brandon will be married on Saturday and will begin their life together in Maryland.
Adelaide is beginning her senior year in highschool in continuing college in Texas.
And I am headed to Bulgaria within weeks to launch a new season of life as a missionary teacher.
Life is changing for the fearsome-foursome but we will be all the more stronger and better together as we transform into the sappy six, or the silly seven, or maybe even one day the energetic eight. We will always love, laugh, and live life together because close siblings are inseparable.
So to you my sweet sisters this is my promise:
~ I may be miles away, be a missionary teacher, and have my own special man but you three I loved first! That will never change! I love you all! All the best! ~
Perhaps it is because I finally am forced to sit and...oh dear, think. Or maybe, it is because there are so many people around that spark genuine creativity and thought.
Who knows?
Anyway, besides, that is kind of besides the point...
Okay, so what am I doing in an airport again, you ask? Well, I'm headed to a wedding - my younger sister Elsie's wedding! It is real crazy to think that she has matured into such a beautiful bride-to-be! I am so excited for her and unbelievably proud!
No, don't think I am taking any credit for her maturity or accomplishments. That is not what we are here to talk about. (Side note though: I can promise you though - All the glory goes to God for the amazing woman she has turned into.)
Honestly however, Elsie has been such an inspiration, encouragement, and joy to have in my life.
From the start Morelle, Elsie and I were pals (trail twinnzies). We are all close in age and I like to think have always been partners in crime. We were rad together. When Adelaide came along we became the fearsome-foursome - the unstoppable Cummins sisters. (Wait... You didn't realize this was going to be a sappy sister post. Oops! Sorry!)
Anyways, over the years us Cummins girls (and boys) have grown and changed (and at times grown apart - remember, we are not perfect). We've laughed, cried, camped, climbed, run, and Skyped our way through life.
Together we have jointly lived in (soon to be) five states (and two different countries) and often been apart. We have spent days, weeks, and months separated, and yet always come back together stronger. At points we fell asleep upset at each other but always awoke to realize that sisterhood means more than a meaningless grudge.
We are not a picture-perfect family but we have plenty of pictures (of wonderful memories)! And those memories that we have made mean more to me now than ever before!
See...
Morelle and Matthew were married in May and are now living and working in Oklahoma.
Elsie and Brandon will be married on Saturday and will begin their life together in Maryland.
Adelaide is beginning her senior year in highschool in continuing college in Texas.
And I am headed to Bulgaria within weeks to launch a new season of life as a missionary teacher.
Life is changing for the fearsome-foursome but we will be all the more stronger and better together as we transform into the sappy six, or the silly seven, or maybe even one day the energetic eight. We will always love, laugh, and live life together because close siblings are inseparable.
So to you my sweet sisters this is my promise:
~ I may be miles away, be a missionary teacher, and have my own special man but you three I loved first! That will never change! I love you all! All the best! ~
Sunday, July 19, 2015
A Leap of Faith - From Colorado, U.S.A. to Sofia, Bulgaria
Hello Dear Friends and Family,
I am pleased and honored to share with you some exciting news! For a while I have felt God’s calling on my heart to serve overseas. However, it was not until I learned of a unique opportunity in
Bulgaria, to serve as a teacher, that it was confirmed in my heart. After several weeks of prayer, I applied for the teaching position and was hired as a teacher at Sofia Christian Academy for the
2015-2016 school year.While overseas, I will be serving with the organization Mission to the World. Sofia Christian Academy is associated with Mission to the World. While there, I will be overseeing the education of missionary children from various organizations. I will be one of two full-time teachers working at the school and personally I will be instructing five different grade levels, specializing in English and literature.
Along with teaching at the school, I will also be helping in various additional local ministries, alongside current team members. At present there is a significant need for ministerial help in Bulgaria and therefore my present objective is to be overseas by the beginning of September. If you are feeling God’s call to partner with me in this ministry, there are two ways that you can do so. First, I am in serious need of financial support. Since, I will be serving as a missionary, I am required to raise
my own funds for travel costs, as well finances to cover administration, ministry costs, and insurance, along with all of my living expenses while overseas.
My current need is: $31,050.47 – No, that is not a typo. Although this is a large figure, this amount is
recommended for a missionary serving with Mission to the World for ten-months and for the most part I was not able to modify their budget. Regardless of this though, I strongly believe that since God has called me to Bulgaria, he will provide. For more clarification, only about a third of this sum will need to be raised by the time of my departure; whereas the larger amount is required to be pledged. If you would like to give to my ministry in this way, donations can be given online at donations.mtw.org - my account number for reference is: #11442.
A second, and equally important way in which I need assistance is through prayer. For more specific details on this see please the prayer points listed below:
• God’s provision for financial support before leaving for Bulgaria.
• Smooth and easy access of required documentation needed for my visa.
• Peace and patience throughout the upcoming months of transition.
• Positive closure to my current summer nanny position.
In advance I would like to thank you for your support, encouragement, and prayers. They mean so very much! If you would like to continue to receive updates on the progress of my journey feel free to
Cora Cummins
How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings good news, who
proclaims peace, who brings glad tidings of good things, who proclaims salvation,
who says to Zion, “Your God reigns!” - Isaiah 52:7
Sunday, June 7, 2015
An Exciting (And Scary) New Adventure...
Hello family and friends:
It has been a while since I have posted anything here but, with some exciting news to share, I thought it was time to post again!
For quite a while I have felt God's calling on my life to serve over-seas in some capacity, but I have never fully known in what way. Last month however, I heard of a unique opportunity to serve as a teacher in Sofia, Bulgaria, at Sofia Christian Academy. Initially, I was hesitant. However, after considering if for some time I felt God prodding my heart to pursue the opportunity.
With the support of my amazing family and boyfriend, I applied for the position, began communicating with the school board, and eventually interviewed. As the process progressed things seemed in my favor and I felt a great sense of peace about the whole situation.
Just last week I was notified that I have been hired at Sofia Christian Academy for the 2015-2016 school year! I am so overwhelming excited and blessed to have been given this incredible opportunity!
Currently I am going through the approval process to go as an "intern" with the missions organization Mission to the World. Before I am able to go to Bulgaria however, there are multiple hoops I will need to jump through.
First, I will need to be approved by Mission to the World. Once this is done they will be able to help me begin raising my funds. (I will be considered a missionary and will therefore be required to raise a currently unknown amount to cover my airfare, visa and passport costs, and my living expenses while in-country).
Secondly, like I just mentioned, I will need to apply for and obtain a visa to stay in Bulgaria for roughly eleven months.
Third, I will need to begin raising support and gaining prayer partners, both of which will be extremely crucial to my time in Bulgaria.
In conclusion, for now, I would like to mention just a few prayer requests:
1. Favor and good timing in completing the Mission to the World internship process, as well as the passport and visa processes.
2. The Lord's provision in funds to cover all of the aforementioned expenses.
3. Patience and peace throughout the entire process.
As this process progresses I will continue to post updates here. If at any point you would like to know additional details, please let me know! Thank you in advance for all of your prayers and support!
Much love and many blessings,
Cora
It has been a while since I have posted anything here but, with some exciting news to share, I thought it was time to post again!
For quite a while I have felt God's calling on my life to serve over-seas in some capacity, but I have never fully known in what way. Last month however, I heard of a unique opportunity to serve as a teacher in Sofia, Bulgaria, at Sofia Christian Academy. Initially, I was hesitant. However, after considering if for some time I felt God prodding my heart to pursue the opportunity.
With the support of my amazing family and boyfriend, I applied for the position, began communicating with the school board, and eventually interviewed. As the process progressed things seemed in my favor and I felt a great sense of peace about the whole situation.
Just last week I was notified that I have been hired at Sofia Christian Academy for the 2015-2016 school year! I am so overwhelming excited and blessed to have been given this incredible opportunity!
Currently I am going through the approval process to go as an "intern" with the missions organization Mission to the World. Before I am able to go to Bulgaria however, there are multiple hoops I will need to jump through.
First, I will need to be approved by Mission to the World. Once this is done they will be able to help me begin raising my funds. (I will be considered a missionary and will therefore be required to raise a currently unknown amount to cover my airfare, visa and passport costs, and my living expenses while in-country).
Secondly, like I just mentioned, I will need to apply for and obtain a visa to stay in Bulgaria for roughly eleven months.
Third, I will need to begin raising support and gaining prayer partners, both of which will be extremely crucial to my time in Bulgaria.
In conclusion, for now, I would like to mention just a few prayer requests:
1. Favor and good timing in completing the Mission to the World internship process, as well as the passport and visa processes.
2. The Lord's provision in funds to cover all of the aforementioned expenses.
3. Patience and peace throughout the entire process.
As this process progresses I will continue to post updates here. If at any point you would like to know additional details, please let me know! Thank you in advance for all of your prayers and support!
Much love and many blessings,
Cora
Thursday, April 23, 2015
ADHD: The Biggest Relationship Blessing
Countless articles and blog posts have been written for the benefit of individuals in a relationship with someone with ADHD. These articles often give relationship advice, discussing how to "cope" with the side-affects of ADHD in your partner, along with attempting to explain what a future with your significant other could look like. The underlining theme of all of these articles, regardless of their specific topic or writing competence, is that people, in these relationships, need to be open-minded and aware of what ADHD really is.
Although these articles present a valiant effort, I believe that there is a serious gap between the opinions of those 'on the outside looking in' and those living and loving in these ADHD relationships. Therefore, I propose sharing my own relationship story as a different look into an ADHD relationship.
For the last ten and a half months I have been dating by best friend, Joseph Rattle. If you know Joseph and are close to him, he may have shared with you that he has ADHD*.
When I met Joseph, I was completely unaware that he exhibited characteristics of ADHD. To my knowledge, I had never interacted with anyone specifically who had it and therefore, I was almost completely unaware of what it would look like in someone. Joseph was everything I wanted in a man though. He was godly, kind, sweet, patient, thoughtful, a good listener, and a wonderful friend. He far surpassed any of my previous images of a significant other.
When we met, we were both working at a summer camp and after seeing each other on a daily basis for months it because very evident to both of us that we saw something deeper and more serious in each other than simply friendship.
After we started dating and began learning more about each other, Joseph vulnerably shared with me about his ADHD, how it affects his life, and has created fears and insecurities about the future. He shared with me how ADHD had created struggles at points in his life and how occasionally he has been forced to restructure or handle situations differently because of it. However, never once did he act like a martyr or expect to be treated differently than anyone else.
I would be lying if I said that Joseph's ADHD has not affected our relationship. However, by no means has it been a negative asset for us. At points it has been challenging. We have had to work extra hard sometimes to accomplish tasks, organize for life, or plan activities, but all of these have been a good thing, giving us even more quality time together as a couple.
Yes, being in a relationship with someone with ADHD is different, but every relationship is different. Is it hard to love someone with ADHD? No! Falling in love with Joseph was one of the most natural things I've ever done.
All this being said however, I acknowledge that my future will look differently. Loving and living in a relationship with someone with ADHD may be a challenge at times; however, I see my relationship with Joseph, as the biggest blessing I've ever had. Loving him has taught me so many lessons.
First, I have learned that patience is key. Every relationship takes patience. Your significant other is bound to do or say things that bother will you every now and then, he/she is certain to have flaws that will need time for improvement. Without or without ADHD, patience is so important to the success of a relationship.
Second, flexibility is vital. Being in a relationship requires a significant amount of flexibility. In our relationship, there are times when addressing Joseph's ADHD or spending additional time working on something is more important than following a strict schedule or plan. However, although flexibility has been helpful in an ADHD relationship, it can be useful in all relationships as well.
The third thing I've learned is that attention is meaningful. From Joey I have learned that to someone with ADHD receiving attention is very important. Not only is quality time his top love language but attention truly helps him feel needed and appreciated. For example, it is extremely significant to him when I take the time to listen, or simply spend time doing something silly with him.
A fourth thing I have learned from being in a relationship with Joseph is that communication is essential. While being in a relationship with someone with ADHD, communication is paramount. It is unbelievably important to talk through things. When there is a lack of communication there is a lack of reassurance and a greater amount of distrust, fear, and confusion. The easiest way to handle this is to simply talk, share, and communicate.
The last and final thing I've learned from being in an ADHD relationship is that not being serious doesn't mean there is a lack of maturity. Although some people may consider individuals with ADHD to be immature due to their hobbies, pastimes, or carefree nature at points, I have discovered that individuals with ADHD often use silliness or playful pastimes to cope with the stress and pressure that normal life offers them. It is a way to break out of that norm and enjoy themselves and life. Although others may see this as immaturity, I consider it to be quite the opposite because these individuals have discovered a way to live their lives in a balanced way.
Okay, so I've rambled on and on about ADHD, my relationship, and my insights on the topic. However by no means do I claim to be an expert. I merely desired to share my own personal relationship story in an effort to raise awareness about ADHD. I wanted to share that ADHD individuals, although different from others, are unique, special and valuable in relationships and although a future and relationship with them may appear different, I know that if you open your heart to one, they will love you faithfully.
*Note: Joseph has read, approved, and is comfortable with all of this post and is honored to share his story with me.
Although these articles present a valiant effort, I believe that there is a serious gap between the opinions of those 'on the outside looking in' and those living and loving in these ADHD relationships. Therefore, I propose sharing my own relationship story as a different look into an ADHD relationship.
For the last ten and a half months I have been dating by best friend, Joseph Rattle. If you know Joseph and are close to him, he may have shared with you that he has ADHD*.
When I met Joseph, I was completely unaware that he exhibited characteristics of ADHD. To my knowledge, I had never interacted with anyone specifically who had it and therefore, I was almost completely unaware of what it would look like in someone. Joseph was everything I wanted in a man though. He was godly, kind, sweet, patient, thoughtful, a good listener, and a wonderful friend. He far surpassed any of my previous images of a significant other.
When we met, we were both working at a summer camp and after seeing each other on a daily basis for months it because very evident to both of us that we saw something deeper and more serious in each other than simply friendship.
After we started dating and began learning more about each other, Joseph vulnerably shared with me about his ADHD, how it affects his life, and has created fears and insecurities about the future. He shared with me how ADHD had created struggles at points in his life and how occasionally he has been forced to restructure or handle situations differently because of it. However, never once did he act like a martyr or expect to be treated differently than anyone else.
I would be lying if I said that Joseph's ADHD has not affected our relationship. However, by no means has it been a negative asset for us. At points it has been challenging. We have had to work extra hard sometimes to accomplish tasks, organize for life, or plan activities, but all of these have been a good thing, giving us even more quality time together as a couple.
Yes, being in a relationship with someone with ADHD is different, but every relationship is different. Is it hard to love someone with ADHD? No! Falling in love with Joseph was one of the most natural things I've ever done.
All this being said however, I acknowledge that my future will look differently. Loving and living in a relationship with someone with ADHD may be a challenge at times; however, I see my relationship with Joseph, as the biggest blessing I've ever had. Loving him has taught me so many lessons.
First, I have learned that patience is key. Every relationship takes patience. Your significant other is bound to do or say things that bother will you every now and then, he/she is certain to have flaws that will need time for improvement. Without or without ADHD, patience is so important to the success of a relationship.
Second, flexibility is vital. Being in a relationship requires a significant amount of flexibility. In our relationship, there are times when addressing Joseph's ADHD or spending additional time working on something is more important than following a strict schedule or plan. However, although flexibility has been helpful in an ADHD relationship, it can be useful in all relationships as well.
The third thing I've learned is that attention is meaningful. From Joey I have learned that to someone with ADHD receiving attention is very important. Not only is quality time his top love language but attention truly helps him feel needed and appreciated. For example, it is extremely significant to him when I take the time to listen, or simply spend time doing something silly with him.
A fourth thing I have learned from being in a relationship with Joseph is that communication is essential. While being in a relationship with someone with ADHD, communication is paramount. It is unbelievably important to talk through things. When there is a lack of communication there is a lack of reassurance and a greater amount of distrust, fear, and confusion. The easiest way to handle this is to simply talk, share, and communicate.
The last and final thing I've learned from being in an ADHD relationship is that not being serious doesn't mean there is a lack of maturity. Although some people may consider individuals with ADHD to be immature due to their hobbies, pastimes, or carefree nature at points, I have discovered that individuals with ADHD often use silliness or playful pastimes to cope with the stress and pressure that normal life offers them. It is a way to break out of that norm and enjoy themselves and life. Although others may see this as immaturity, I consider it to be quite the opposite because these individuals have discovered a way to live their lives in a balanced way.
Okay, so I've rambled on and on about ADHD, my relationship, and my insights on the topic. However by no means do I claim to be an expert. I merely desired to share my own personal relationship story in an effort to raise awareness about ADHD. I wanted to share that ADHD individuals, although different from others, are unique, special and valuable in relationships and although a future and relationship with them may appear different, I know that if you open your heart to one, they will love you faithfully.
*Note: Joseph has read, approved, and is comfortable with all of this post and is honored to share his story with me.
Tuesday, March 3, 2015
Seeking Joy in the Seemingly Mundane
Joy can be allusive. Joy can seem far from reach. Joy can appear to be a needle in a haystack. Joy can be sought after but never found. Joy can be grasped for but never achieved.
Do any of these statements resonate with you? They often do for me.
Today I chose to visit the library and enjoy some time reading and relaxing. I was not familiar with the library so after walking around for a bit I picked a random table in the back hoping for some peace and quiet.
Not even moments later though I heard something... people laughing and talking. Who is that? I wondered. Isn't a library suppose to be quiet?
My first reaction was frustration. Why are these people being noisy? I am trying to read. Then I realized who I was hearing. It was a group of special needs individuals around the corner from me. They were smiling and laughing and enjoying themselves. It was obviously so genuine that they couldn't hold it in. It was beautiful!
From that moment on my attitude changed. Instead of frustration, I felt blessed to have been led to the table. It seemed almost providential to have heard those happy voices because I need a reminder on joy.
I truly needed to be reminded that joy can be found anywhere.
As the giver of all joy, I believe that God desires us to find joy in the small things of life. He desires us to live a life of joy and not one of despair. So even though for me coming to the library was a small and seemingly unimportant outing, I was blessed to be reminded that joy was literally right around the corner.
I wasn't looking for it when I found joy today but I can guarantee that from now on I will be searching.
So, regardless of your circumstances or struggles today, where have you seen joy? Like it was for me, it may just be right around the corner. Don't miss out of seeing it!
Do any of these statements resonate with you? They often do for me.
Today I chose to visit the library and enjoy some time reading and relaxing. I was not familiar with the library so after walking around for a bit I picked a random table in the back hoping for some peace and quiet.
Not even moments later though I heard something... people laughing and talking. Who is that? I wondered. Isn't a library suppose to be quiet?
My first reaction was frustration. Why are these people being noisy? I am trying to read. Then I realized who I was hearing. It was a group of special needs individuals around the corner from me. They were smiling and laughing and enjoying themselves. It was obviously so genuine that they couldn't hold it in. It was beautiful!
From that moment on my attitude changed. Instead of frustration, I felt blessed to have been led to the table. It seemed almost providential to have heard those happy voices because I need a reminder on joy.
I truly needed to be reminded that joy can be found anywhere.
As the giver of all joy, I believe that God desires us to find joy in the small things of life. He desires us to live a life of joy and not one of despair. So even though for me coming to the library was a small and seemingly unimportant outing, I was blessed to be reminded that joy was literally right around the corner.
I wasn't looking for it when I found joy today but I can guarantee that from now on I will be searching.
So, regardless of your circumstances or struggles today, where have you seen joy? Like it was for me, it may just be right around the corner. Don't miss out of seeing it!
Monday, December 22, 2014
My Recent Florida Adventures
As I mentioned in my previous blog post, I was recently given the opportunity to travel to Florida and work as an on-the-road nanny. This blog post will highlight some of the neat things that I was able to do on my trip.
December 8 (1:20 pm): I departed from Oklahoma City and flew to Dallas where my family picked me up. I was able to spend roughly 24 hours with them before I left for Florida the next day.
December 9 (3:55 pm): I flew out of Dallas with the Bartlett family, the family for which I would be working, after meeting up with them at their home and traveling to the airport together.
(7:22 pm) We arrived in Orlando, Florida and then drove to the home we would be renting in Davenport for the duration of our stay.
December 10: We relaxed for the majority of the day and then visited the Magic Kingdom that evening. We rode several rides, watch a Disney show and took a few pictures with the characters.
December 11: Spent time at Hollywood Studios for most of the day. Got to ride several rides, visited Oaken's Outpost, saw a car tricks show, as well as a Frozen singalong.
December 14: We visited the Animal Kingdom. While there we drove several rides, went on an animal safari adventure, took pictures with several characters, and visited a petting zoo.
December 15: As the children were waking up this morning one of the kids felt sick and ended up throwing up so the Grandmother stayed home with him while the rest of the family drove an hour and a half to spend the day at Clearwater Beach Island. Overall this was probably my favorite day of the trip. It was fun and relaxing and the beach was just beautiful!
December 16: On this day we went back to the Magic Kingdom for the Christmas Party, which took place after the traditional park hours. That day we spent a significant amount of time at the park, taking pictures and riding rides. At the end of the day everyone was tired out!
December 17: Since it was Ranger (the middle child)'s birthday, the family decided to go back to Clearwater Beach Island, because he had been sick the first time we went. Since I had already been there with the family, they were gracious enough to allow me to stay home. I was able to workout, rest, catch up with family and friends, and overall relax. It was very nice!
December 18: Because the 18th was the Mother's birthday, we went together, back to Downtown Disney, along with the Father to watch the Hobbit: The Battle of the Five Armies. Overall, I really enjoyed the movie and it was fun getting to watch it with them!
December 19: Friday morning the Mother and I woke up early and drove to the Magic Kingdom to be there when it opened at eight. For close to four hours we walked around the park taking pictures with the characters. Some of which included: Elsa, Anna, Cinderella, Rapunzel, Ariel, Pooh, Tiger, Daisy and Donald Duck, and Minnie and Mickey. The remainder of the day involved packing up and preparing to fly back to Texas.
December 20: Saturday morning we packed everything into the van and drove to Tampa, Florida to catch our flight. It ended up being delayed by an hour so we were able to take our time getting out of the house as well as going through security at the airport. After several hours I had made it home and was able to rest and relax with my family.
Since arriving home I have been able to rest up and hangout with my family, which has been very nice. This week I will be celebrating Christmas with my immediate family, as as well as spending time with our Aunt Lori and my boyfriend Joey. I am looking forward to some more rest and relaxation before I head back to Florida for another month with the Bartlett family. However, I am also missing 'my' three sweet kiddos as well.
As I prepare and eventually head back to Florida I would greatly appreciate your prayers!
Please pray for:
December 8 (1:20 pm): I departed from Oklahoma City and flew to Dallas where my family picked me up. I was able to spend roughly 24 hours with them before I left for Florida the next day.
December 9 (3:55 pm): I flew out of Dallas with the Bartlett family, the family for which I would be working, after meeting up with them at their home and traveling to the airport together.
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| The three Bartlett children and I at the Orlando Airport. |
December 10: We relaxed for the majority of the day and then visited the Magic Kingdom that evening. We rode several rides, watch a Disney show and took a few pictures with the characters.
December 11: Spent time at Hollywood Studios for most of the day. Got to ride several rides, visited Oaken's Outpost, saw a car tricks show, as well as a Frozen singalong.
December 12: The kids spent time with their Father at LegoLand allowing the Grandma, Mom, and I to do some shopping.
December 13: Together as a whole family we visited Downtown Disney. The children, Grandma, and I watched Penguins of Madagascar while the parents watched Mockingjay (Part 1). Following that we walked around the rest of Downton Disney.
December 13: Together as a whole family we visited Downtown Disney. The children, Grandma, and I watched Penguins of Madagascar while the parents watched Mockingjay (Part 1). Following that we walked around the rest of Downton Disney.
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| Silly faces outside the Downtown Disney Starbucks. |
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| Selfie on the Animal Kingdom Safari. |
December 15: As the children were waking up this morning one of the kids felt sick and ended up throwing up so the Grandmother stayed home with him while the rest of the family drove an hour and a half to spend the day at Clearwater Beach Island. Overall this was probably my favorite day of the trip. It was fun and relaxing and the beach was just beautiful!
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| Walking along the boardwalk at sunset. |
December 17: Since it was Ranger (the middle child)'s birthday, the family decided to go back to Clearwater Beach Island, because he had been sick the first time we went. Since I had already been there with the family, they were gracious enough to allow me to stay home. I was able to workout, rest, catch up with family and friends, and overall relax. It was very nice!
December 18: Because the 18th was the Mother's birthday, we went together, back to Downtown Disney, along with the Father to watch the Hobbit: The Battle of the Five Armies. Overall, I really enjoyed the movie and it was fun getting to watch it with them!
December 19: Friday morning the Mother and I woke up early and drove to the Magic Kingdom to be there when it opened at eight. For close to four hours we walked around the park taking pictures with the characters. Some of which included: Elsa, Anna, Cinderella, Rapunzel, Ariel, Pooh, Tiger, Daisy and Donald Duck, and Minnie and Mickey. The remainder of the day involved packing up and preparing to fly back to Texas.
December 20: Saturday morning we packed everything into the van and drove to Tampa, Florida to catch our flight. It ended up being delayed by an hour so we were able to take our time getting out of the house as well as going through security at the airport. After several hours I had made it home and was able to rest and relax with my family.
Since arriving home I have been able to rest up and hangout with my family, which has been very nice. This week I will be celebrating Christmas with my immediate family, as as well as spending time with our Aunt Lori and my boyfriend Joey. I am looking forward to some more rest and relaxation before I head back to Florida for another month with the Bartlett family. However, I am also missing 'my' three sweet kiddos as well.
As I prepare and eventually head back to Florida I would greatly appreciate your prayers!
Please pray for:
- Good Health (specifically that I don't develop any motion sickness on my flights)
- Energy and Stamina
- Direction for what is next...
Thank you so much for your prayers and support! Much love! Merry Christmas!
Thursday, December 4, 2014
A Belated Thanksgiving Reflection
The other day, in the midst of some rather stressful and overwhelming things, I was convicted of something that I felt the need to share. Thankfulness.
As I eluded to just moments ago, I have been going through some challenges lately. In the days surrounding Thanksgiving I was home with my boyfriend, Joey, spending time with my family. It seemed like the picture-perfect time; family, friends, food, and quality time. We were thrilled to get this opportunity to spend time together as our family is quickly 'growing up' and our family dynamics are rapidly changing. In the middle of this special time I received a phone call from a family that I formerly worked for. They were inviting me to join them on their family vacation as their on-the-road-nanny. I was thrilled. Nannying is something I have enjoyed in the past and feel fulfilled doing. I automatically felt an immense peace from the Lord and after discussing it with my family, I agreed to accept the job.
Unfortunately however, when I address the situation with my landlady a domino effect happened, which regardless of my original intentions, led to me moving out shortly after my return to Oklahoma.
To my embarrassment and dismay, I allowed this situation and the surrounding conflict to take the forefront of my mind and during this time I completely forgot to be thankful for... anything. All I could focus on were the negatives in my life, the things that were going wrong, and what I could have...or should have done differently to prevent the unfortunate outcome.
The other day though, as I was packing my things up and cleaning the house, I felt God say to me: "Stop complaining and be thankful!" Until then it hadn't even crossed my mind that I had completely forgotten to be thankful.
Therefore, over these last few days, although they have been tough with moving out and transitioning to another 'chapter' of my life, I have attempted to focus more on the things for which I am thankful.
Some of those things, among many are: my family (My parents, siblings, and Grandparents), my boyfriend, Joey, my countless friends, and my church family. Overall, I am so very blessed and although my life isn't perfect; what I have learned from this conviction is this: Life will never be perfect and if I am waiting for that time to praise God and be thankful then I'll be waiting for ever. Instead, I should choose to focus on God and the blessings he has given me in the midst of struggles, as well as life in general.
So my challenge to you is this: Regardless of your circumstances, what are you thankful for?
As I eluded to just moments ago, I have been going through some challenges lately. In the days surrounding Thanksgiving I was home with my boyfriend, Joey, spending time with my family. It seemed like the picture-perfect time; family, friends, food, and quality time. We were thrilled to get this opportunity to spend time together as our family is quickly 'growing up' and our family dynamics are rapidly changing. In the middle of this special time I received a phone call from a family that I formerly worked for. They were inviting me to join them on their family vacation as their on-the-road-nanny. I was thrilled. Nannying is something I have enjoyed in the past and feel fulfilled doing. I automatically felt an immense peace from the Lord and after discussing it with my family, I agreed to accept the job.
Unfortunately however, when I address the situation with my landlady a domino effect happened, which regardless of my original intentions, led to me moving out shortly after my return to Oklahoma.
To my embarrassment and dismay, I allowed this situation and the surrounding conflict to take the forefront of my mind and during this time I completely forgot to be thankful for... anything. All I could focus on were the negatives in my life, the things that were going wrong, and what I could have...or should have done differently to prevent the unfortunate outcome.
The other day though, as I was packing my things up and cleaning the house, I felt God say to me: "Stop complaining and be thankful!" Until then it hadn't even crossed my mind that I had completely forgotten to be thankful.
Therefore, over these last few days, although they have been tough with moving out and transitioning to another 'chapter' of my life, I have attempted to focus more on the things for which I am thankful.
Some of those things, among many are: my family (My parents, siblings, and Grandparents), my boyfriend, Joey, my countless friends, and my church family. Overall, I am so very blessed and although my life isn't perfect; what I have learned from this conviction is this: Life will never be perfect and if I am waiting for that time to praise God and be thankful then I'll be waiting for ever. Instead, I should choose to focus on God and the blessings he has given me in the midst of struggles, as well as life in general.
So my challenge to you is this: Regardless of your circumstances, what are you thankful for?
Sunday, November 9, 2014
Jeremiah 29:11 - What Exactly Does It Mean? (A 20 Year Old's Perspective and Opinion)
For countless years, the verse Jeremiah 29:11: "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." has been shared with me. I've been reminded of it over and over again, through graduation cards, "pep-talks", and prayers; however, I've never fully allowed this verse to sink in and resonate with me. Recently however due to my current life circumstances, I've begun to formulate an opinion and perspective on it and decided it was time to share.
*Discloser* If you decide to keep reading, keep this in mind: I am by no means a Biblical scholar. I'm not claiming that my perspective is the only one or indeed the best one. Instead I share it as my opinion and perspective on this well-known verse. Enjoy!
For so long, I was under the naive assumption that God's plans for my life would be shared with me, perhaps in some kind of 'Life Manual' or 'How To Tackle This Decision' pamphlet prior to any large life choices, decisions, or experiences. I hoped and prayed that God would direct me and tell me what to do and more specifically what would happen in my future. I didn't want to go through the tough patches before reaching God's, or more honestly, my dream life scenario.
Over these last few weeks, I have found myself struggling with my current life situations. At points I've felt discontent, discouraged, useless, unappreciated, and frustrated with everything going on. Last week specifically was a challenge. Early on in the week, two PR related jobs for which I had applied turned me down and things at Swadley's were continually getting worse as the week went on. My tip revenue was low, there was a significant amount of co-worker drama, and the manager's all appeared to be grumpy leading to a even more unpleasant work atmosphere. I was just overall overwhelmed and frustrated and suddenly found myself upset with God. I questioned him asking why things were going so poorly and why he wasn't giving me the dream job, ideal work environment, and salary that I truly desired.
It was during one of these long and arduous work shifts though, that the phrase "Bloom where you are planted" came to mind. I quickly realized and began to remind myself over and over, that flowers do not choose where they are planted. They don't decide on the soil, proximity to shade, or location geographically. They don't complain because they are too close to a lake or too far away from other daisies. Instead they bloom. Because, regardless of where they are, the sun still shines and the rain still falls to provide and nurture.
While pondering on this, a metaphor was brought to my mind. We, as Christians do not decide where we are placed, what skills and gifts we are born with or even how many of the situations in our live will unfold. We are all placed in the midst of trials and tribulations at times and not understand why. However, regardless or the chaos, God still provides. He brings the sun and the rain to help us grow and nurture and perhaps when he sees that we are ready he will scoop us up and show us the next step in our lives. Until then however, we can learn a lesson from the flower and just bloom! Instead of complaining and questioning God's plans we can just bloom. We can trust that his plans are just like he promised, plans to prosper us and not to harm us, plans to give us hope and a future.
*Discloser* If you decide to keep reading, keep this in mind: I am by no means a Biblical scholar. I'm not claiming that my perspective is the only one or indeed the best one. Instead I share it as my opinion and perspective on this well-known verse. Enjoy!
For so long, I was under the naive assumption that God's plans for my life would be shared with me, perhaps in some kind of 'Life Manual' or 'How To Tackle This Decision' pamphlet prior to any large life choices, decisions, or experiences. I hoped and prayed that God would direct me and tell me what to do and more specifically what would happen in my future. I didn't want to go through the tough patches before reaching God's, or more honestly, my dream life scenario.
Over these last few weeks, I have found myself struggling with my current life situations. At points I've felt discontent, discouraged, useless, unappreciated, and frustrated with everything going on. Last week specifically was a challenge. Early on in the week, two PR related jobs for which I had applied turned me down and things at Swadley's were continually getting worse as the week went on. My tip revenue was low, there was a significant amount of co-worker drama, and the manager's all appeared to be grumpy leading to a even more unpleasant work atmosphere. I was just overall overwhelmed and frustrated and suddenly found myself upset with God. I questioned him asking why things were going so poorly and why he wasn't giving me the dream job, ideal work environment, and salary that I truly desired.
It was during one of these long and arduous work shifts though, that the phrase "Bloom where you are planted" came to mind. I quickly realized and began to remind myself over and over, that flowers do not choose where they are planted. They don't decide on the soil, proximity to shade, or location geographically. They don't complain because they are too close to a lake or too far away from other daisies. Instead they bloom. Because, regardless of where they are, the sun still shines and the rain still falls to provide and nurture.
While pondering on this, a metaphor was brought to my mind. We, as Christians do not decide where we are placed, what skills and gifts we are born with or even how many of the situations in our live will unfold. We are all placed in the midst of trials and tribulations at times and not understand why. However, regardless or the chaos, God still provides. He brings the sun and the rain to help us grow and nurture and perhaps when he sees that we are ready he will scoop us up and show us the next step in our lives. Until then however, we can learn a lesson from the flower and just bloom! Instead of complaining and questioning God's plans we can just bloom. We can trust that his plans are just like he promised, plans to prosper us and not to harm us, plans to give us hope and a future.
Sunday, September 14, 2014
The Dining Experience From The Other Side Of The Table - An Inside Look At A Restaurant
We've all been there. You walk into a restaurant, order your food, sit down at your booth and wait patiently for your server to come take your drink order. One minute. Two minutes. Maybe even three minutes pass and you're still sitting there, waiting. In a situation like this, it can become extremely easy to get annoyed or impatient as your mind wanders to reasons behind why your server is "slacking on the job" or "ignoring" you as a customer.
However, when you look at (or experience) things from the opposite side of the table, you may realize that things could be very different than you had previously expected.
As some of you may know, about three weeks ago I started working at Swadley's, a barbecue place in Oklahoma City. Previously to this I had never worked in anything related to food service. Regardless of this though, I hoped that my experience and degree in Public Relations, which focuses on public speaking, networking, relationships, and group interaction, would help me to do well working as a server.
Unfortunately however, I was quite unprepared for what the job would pan out to be.
Initially I went through an orientation and training process, during which I learned about the various duties I would perform as a server, such as taking and completing the customers requests for drinks, barbecue sauces, pickles, onions, and peppers, as well as 'running' food out to tables, and completing my daily side jobs (such as restocking products, refilling ice-cream, or wiping tables). After learning all of these detailed components of the job, I was prepared to take my first tables on the floor and start my first official week of work.
My first week I worked Monday through Friday and although it took a little while to adjust to the new atmosphere, I jumped in with intensity and vigor and did really well! That first week I did well waiting tables and make some great tips. (See at Swadley's the servers only make a few dollars per hour and are expected to make the remainder of their salary through tip revenue., similarly to other restaurants.) Unfortunately, this has some serious draw-backs.
The second week I worked things were a little different than the previous week. Due to the State Fair of Oklahoma beginning, our business at Swadley's dropped substantially. According to my bosses and fellow employees this is "normal" for 'us' to have a slower September, but let me point out the obvious, lack of customers (and work) isn't going to pay the bills.
Speaking of bills, I have finally reached the topic about which I was originally intending to write.
I apologize for all my rambling.
I digress.
Previously, before working at Swadley's, I had never been a tipper when I ate out. To be honest, the thought of tipping wasn't even something that ever crossed my mind. (I know, I'm terrible!) I just always assumed that since I was paying for my food that was enough and that my server got paid an hourly wage (i.e. minimum wage…or something) However, since beginning at Swadley's, I have quickly realized that tipping is extremely important…and that assuming is never a good idea!
Since working I have served my share of tables and helped, assisted, and waited on all kinds of people. I have been yelled at, smiled at, thanked, mistreated, ignored, barked at - just about everything you can imagine.
I am not demanding (or even requesting) that you leave a $100 tip for your server the next time that you eat out; however, I do encouraging to leave something, since $2.13 (this figure fluctuates depending on the state, city, and restaurant) an hour cannot pay for the groceries or bills of anyone. If you are not financially capable of leaving something, please do me a favor, let your server know, wherever you eat, that you appreciate their help and that they've done a great job! Make sure they feel valued and important!
….and the next time you eat out and find yourself waiting a minute or two for your server to bring you something, take a moment and realize that you're not the only person they're helping and that they truly are doing their best!
Thanks for reading my ramblings. I'll step down from my soap box now.
However, when you look at (or experience) things from the opposite side of the table, you may realize that things could be very different than you had previously expected.
As some of you may know, about three weeks ago I started working at Swadley's, a barbecue place in Oklahoma City. Previously to this I had never worked in anything related to food service. Regardless of this though, I hoped that my experience and degree in Public Relations, which focuses on public speaking, networking, relationships, and group interaction, would help me to do well working as a server.
Unfortunately however, I was quite unprepared for what the job would pan out to be.
Initially I went through an orientation and training process, during which I learned about the various duties I would perform as a server, such as taking and completing the customers requests for drinks, barbecue sauces, pickles, onions, and peppers, as well as 'running' food out to tables, and completing my daily side jobs (such as restocking products, refilling ice-cream, or wiping tables). After learning all of these detailed components of the job, I was prepared to take my first tables on the floor and start my first official week of work.
My first week I worked Monday through Friday and although it took a little while to adjust to the new atmosphere, I jumped in with intensity and vigor and did really well! That first week I did well waiting tables and make some great tips. (See at Swadley's the servers only make a few dollars per hour and are expected to make the remainder of their salary through tip revenue., similarly to other restaurants.) Unfortunately, this has some serious draw-backs.
The second week I worked things were a little different than the previous week. Due to the State Fair of Oklahoma beginning, our business at Swadley's dropped substantially. According to my bosses and fellow employees this is "normal" for 'us' to have a slower September, but let me point out the obvious, lack of customers (and work) isn't going to pay the bills.
Speaking of bills, I have finally reached the topic about which I was originally intending to write.
I apologize for all my rambling.
I digress.
Previously, before working at Swadley's, I had never been a tipper when I ate out. To be honest, the thought of tipping wasn't even something that ever crossed my mind. (I know, I'm terrible!) I just always assumed that since I was paying for my food that was enough and that my server got paid an hourly wage (i.e. minimum wage…or something) However, since beginning at Swadley's, I have quickly realized that tipping is extremely important…and that assuming is never a good idea!
Since working I have served my share of tables and helped, assisted, and waited on all kinds of people. I have been yelled at, smiled at, thanked, mistreated, ignored, barked at - just about everything you can imagine.
I am not demanding (or even requesting) that you leave a $100 tip for your server the next time that you eat out; however, I do encouraging to leave something, since $2.13 (this figure fluctuates depending on the state, city, and restaurant) an hour cannot pay for the groceries or bills of anyone. If you are not financially capable of leaving something, please do me a favor, let your server know, wherever you eat, that you appreciate their help and that they've done a great job! Make sure they feel valued and important!
….and the next time you eat out and find yourself waiting a minute or two for your server to bring you something, take a moment and realize that you're not the only person they're helping and that they truly are doing their best!
Thanks for reading my ramblings. I'll step down from my soap box now.
Tuesday, February 11, 2014
Life as an Adventure: Popping the Bubble of Your Comfort Zone
"Just think - you don't need a thing, you've got it all! All God's gifts are right in front of you wait expectantly for our Master Jesus to arrive on the scene of the finale. And not only that, but God himself is right alongside to keep you steady and on track until things are all wrapped up by Jesus. God, who got you started in this spiritual adventure, shares with us the life of his Son and our Master Jesus. He will never give up on you. Never forget that." (1 Corinthians 1:7-9 - The Message)
So, for those of you that know me, you may be aware that I don't often leave my comfort zone. I have a tendency to stay close to the things I know and the activities I have experienced before. I'm an introvert. I get awkward and uncomfortable sometimes. The honest truth though, is that I am afraid. Afraid of failure, afraid of the unknown, afraid of life, and afraid of judgement. It is for these reasons that I often restrain my curiosity and adventuresome side and instead live life taking as few risks as possible. Recently however, I have begun to feel very convicted of this.
In my opinion the passage of scripture, 1 Corinthians 1:7-9, is perfect proof that God intends for life, both spiritually and physically to be adventuresome. Trust me though, as I've already explained, this has not always been my perspective on life and in fact, it is something I still struggle with. This topic and idea began to resonate in my mind late last year and has only continued to grow since then.
If I recall correctly, my first real introduction to the idea of life as a spiritual adventure was during a Wednesday night Bible study at church. Initially when my college pastor starting talking about living life as an adventure with God, I was like, "What? No! That's just not for me! I am not an adventuresome person, at all! You don't know what you're taking about! There's no way you're talking to me!" Even though I thought these things in defiance, I was right, in a way. It wasn't my Pastor talking to me. It was God. God was speaking to my heart and kindling a passion in me for adventure, adventure with him.
When discussing adventure though, it is very important to know exactly what that word means, so I looked it up. The definitions I found were: "an undertaking usually involving danger and unknown risks" or "an exciting or remarkable experience". Now when looking at these two definitions and taking them for face value both of them sound a little crazy and overwhelming. (At least they do to me...)
However, when considering them further, they actually do in fact fit into the context of a Christian walk. See, life with Christ often calls us to take "unknown" risks, to blindly follow God's calling, forcing us to trust completely on him. A spiritual walk is also often "an exciting and remarkable experience" that grows and strengthens us along the way.
It is very important though to note, that God not only calls us to live life, spiritually, as an adventure with him, but also physically. He does not want us to cower in fear, running away from adventuresome activities. Instead he encourages us to take a leap of faith and step outside of our comfort zone with him at our side.
Back in December, my family and I set off on a 65 mile - 4 day backpacking trip in North East Texas. Although I was very excited about this adventure and thrilled to spend so much quality time with my family, I was also slightly terrified. See, I've spent a lot of time in the outdoors: camping, hiking, jogging...the list goes on and on. But, this was different, there were, what my Dad calls, "known unknowns". There were parts of the trip that were flexible, non-concrete, and in my mind "unplanned". We didn't know exactly where we would camp every night or where we would eat lunch or use the restroom. It was scary to think that we would head out and not have every single detail planned. This just goes to show though, and is only one example of my desire to organize and be in control. This is only one reason why I fear adventure so much. It is very spontaneous, flexible, and a little scary because it forces me to relinquish my control. In the end though, I completed the hike with my family and had an amazing time. Yes, there were challenges and it was certainly an adventure but I'm glad I went. I'm glad I left my comfort zone behind.
So, I challenge you, to think about this. I challenge you join me, this year, and take a leap of faith - to follow God's calling for adventure in your life, both spiritually and physically. I know your adventures may look very different for mine. We are at different stages and that's okay. I invite you though to do something daring with God at your side. I challenge you to pop the bubble of your comfort zone and leave it behind for good because "[...] God, who got you started in this spiritual adventure, shares with us the life of his Son and our Master Jesus. He will never give up on you. Never forget that."
So, for those of you that know me, you may be aware that I don't often leave my comfort zone. I have a tendency to stay close to the things I know and the activities I have experienced before. I'm an introvert. I get awkward and uncomfortable sometimes. The honest truth though, is that I am afraid. Afraid of failure, afraid of the unknown, afraid of life, and afraid of judgement. It is for these reasons that I often restrain my curiosity and adventuresome side and instead live life taking as few risks as possible. Recently however, I have begun to feel very convicted of this.
In my opinion the passage of scripture, 1 Corinthians 1:7-9, is perfect proof that God intends for life, both spiritually and physically to be adventuresome. Trust me though, as I've already explained, this has not always been my perspective on life and in fact, it is something I still struggle with. This topic and idea began to resonate in my mind late last year and has only continued to grow since then.
If I recall correctly, my first real introduction to the idea of life as a spiritual adventure was during a Wednesday night Bible study at church. Initially when my college pastor starting talking about living life as an adventure with God, I was like, "What? No! That's just not for me! I am not an adventuresome person, at all! You don't know what you're taking about! There's no way you're talking to me!" Even though I thought these things in defiance, I was right, in a way. It wasn't my Pastor talking to me. It was God. God was speaking to my heart and kindling a passion in me for adventure, adventure with him.
When discussing adventure though, it is very important to know exactly what that word means, so I looked it up. The definitions I found were: "an undertaking usually involving danger and unknown risks" or "an exciting or remarkable experience". Now when looking at these two definitions and taking them for face value both of them sound a little crazy and overwhelming. (At least they do to me...)
However, when considering them further, they actually do in fact fit into the context of a Christian walk. See, life with Christ often calls us to take "unknown" risks, to blindly follow God's calling, forcing us to trust completely on him. A spiritual walk is also often "an exciting and remarkable experience" that grows and strengthens us along the way.
It is very important though to note, that God not only calls us to live life, spiritually, as an adventure with him, but also physically. He does not want us to cower in fear, running away from adventuresome activities. Instead he encourages us to take a leap of faith and step outside of our comfort zone with him at our side.
Back in December, my family and I set off on a 65 mile - 4 day backpacking trip in North East Texas. Although I was very excited about this adventure and thrilled to spend so much quality time with my family, I was also slightly terrified. See, I've spent a lot of time in the outdoors: camping, hiking, jogging...the list goes on and on. But, this was different, there were, what my Dad calls, "known unknowns". There were parts of the trip that were flexible, non-concrete, and in my mind "unplanned". We didn't know exactly where we would camp every night or where we would eat lunch or use the restroom. It was scary to think that we would head out and not have every single detail planned. This just goes to show though, and is only one example of my desire to organize and be in control. This is only one reason why I fear adventure so much. It is very spontaneous, flexible, and a little scary because it forces me to relinquish my control. In the end though, I completed the hike with my family and had an amazing time. Yes, there were challenges and it was certainly an adventure but I'm glad I went. I'm glad I left my comfort zone behind.
So, I challenge you, to think about this. I challenge you join me, this year, and take a leap of faith - to follow God's calling for adventure in your life, both spiritually and physically. I know your adventures may look very different for mine. We are at different stages and that's okay. I invite you though to do something daring with God at your side. I challenge you to pop the bubble of your comfort zone and leave it behind for good because "[...] God, who got you started in this spiritual adventure, shares with us the life of his Son and our Master Jesus. He will never give up on you. Never forget that."
Monday, January 20, 2014
Is God Your GPS?
Every once in a while, in the middle of an ordinary or normal occurrence, I have an analogy hit me. Now trust me, these analogies are not from me - for in and of myself I am not capable of imagining or creating them. However, with all of that said, today I felt the need to share an analogy that the Lord gave me last summer while my family and I were traveling on a road trip to Alaska and back.
On one particular morning, we packed up our camp as usual, left the campsite, and were heading down the road when suddenly the GPS, to our amazement, informed us that we were approaching a right turn. This seemed both odd and unreliable since the "right turn" we were suppose to make would take us off the paved road and onto a less inviting rocky and dirt path. Almost the entire family, upon hearing this, assumed that the GPS was wrong and being the back seat drivers that we are, we suggested that my Dad remain on the paved road instead.
To our momentary dismay our Father turned off the paved road and onto the rocky and dirt one. Needless to say, the minutes that followed were filled with bumps and jolts that were quite unpleasant. As mile after mile passed, I began to believe that my inkling regarding the 'right way' was correct. Could the highway really be this way? I wondered. Stranger still, along the side of the path were huge boulders and dry grass dotted here and there, amidst adventurous campers and their overnight gear. We really are going the wrong way! I thought as we hit bump after bump in the road.
Several minutes later we finally reached the end of the long and dusty path that my Father had chosen. Regardless of my doubting, he was right, it did take us to the highway.
This real-life analogy reminds of the way that my spiritual walk often goes. Sometimes, as I travel through life, God, my GPS, will suddenly stop me and to my dismay direct me toward another path - one that is less traveled or more rustic and intimidating. God reassures me though, that it is the right way and that I need only to trust him. I, on the other hand, choose sometimes to worry and doubt instead of trusting in his direction and leadership. Ultimately, however, he knows best.
I have no idea what you are going through as we begin 2014. I don't know if you are on the "paved road" of life, filled with smooth travel and easy going adventures, or the "bumpy-rocky" one instead, filled with challenges and struggles. Regardless though, I encourage you to remember that God is in control of every situation and that if you follow his direction he will lead you to where he wants you to go. Hang in there and trust him! He ultimately knows best!
On one particular morning, we packed up our camp as usual, left the campsite, and were heading down the road when suddenly the GPS, to our amazement, informed us that we were approaching a right turn. This seemed both odd and unreliable since the "right turn" we were suppose to make would take us off the paved road and onto a less inviting rocky and dirt path. Almost the entire family, upon hearing this, assumed that the GPS was wrong and being the back seat drivers that we are, we suggested that my Dad remain on the paved road instead.
To our momentary dismay our Father turned off the paved road and onto the rocky and dirt one. Needless to say, the minutes that followed were filled with bumps and jolts that were quite unpleasant. As mile after mile passed, I began to believe that my inkling regarding the 'right way' was correct. Could the highway really be this way? I wondered. Stranger still, along the side of the path were huge boulders and dry grass dotted here and there, amidst adventurous campers and their overnight gear. We really are going the wrong way! I thought as we hit bump after bump in the road.
Several minutes later we finally reached the end of the long and dusty path that my Father had chosen. Regardless of my doubting, he was right, it did take us to the highway.
This real-life analogy reminds of the way that my spiritual walk often goes. Sometimes, as I travel through life, God, my GPS, will suddenly stop me and to my dismay direct me toward another path - one that is less traveled or more rustic and intimidating. God reassures me though, that it is the right way and that I need only to trust him. I, on the other hand, choose sometimes to worry and doubt instead of trusting in his direction and leadership. Ultimately, however, he knows best.
I have no idea what you are going through as we begin 2014. I don't know if you are on the "paved road" of life, filled with smooth travel and easy going adventures, or the "bumpy-rocky" one instead, filled with challenges and struggles. Regardless though, I encourage you to remember that God is in control of every situation and that if you follow his direction he will lead you to where he wants you to go. Hang in there and trust him! He ultimately knows best!
Saturday, July 13, 2013
The Cummins Clan: Abundantly Faithful
If you have ever met a Cummins, I'm sure you can understand me when I say that music is an integral part of our lives. It has been for as long as I can remember and I'm sure even before that. For many, many years my family and I dreamt of creating and releasing a music album. In 2011, many of you saw this dream of ours become a reality when we release our debut album Living Commitment.
Now, two years later we enthusiastically approach tomorrow, July 14th, when we will finally release our second album Abundantly Faithful, to the public! If you live in the Dallas, Texas area my family and I would love to invite you to our CD release event. More details regarding this can be found below. If you are also interested, feel free to like our Facebook page for more details and updates on what we have been up to.
What: The Cummins Clan's CD Release Event
Where: Duncanville Trinity Church of the Nazarene - 611 N. Cedar Ridge, Duncanville, Texas 75116
When: Sunday, July 14th - 6:00 pm.
* Don't forget to look us up on Facebook! Our page can be found by searching: The Cummins Clan or take a look at our website: http://cumminsclan.weebly.com
Saturday, May 11, 2013
A New Horizon
Yep! Over the Horizon has received a face-lift. I felt that since my life has been changing, by blog should too! So, what do you think? Do you like it? Please let me know. I'd love to hear you feedback.
Well, as I just said, my life has been changing. I believe that sometimes life get so crazy and hectic at times that it is not until we stop and look around that we actually notice how far we've come. That's how I feel. Over the course of the last year a lot of change has occurred in my life, much of which has transpired in the last couple of months.
Interestingly, a couple of weeks ago I was asked by a woman at Lake View Park Church of the Nazarene, the church that I attend while at school, to be one of three women to speak at their annual women's luncheon on May 4th. The theme of the luncheon this year was "Change" and how God has been working in our life over the last year.
In the week leading up to the luncheon I attempted on multiple occasions to write out something to say. However, it was not until the night before that the Holy Spirit inspired my thoughts and gave me a message. When I stood up to speak though in front of the group of eight-five women, the words that I heard coming from my mouth were not what I had written down the night before. I was amazing. God had taken over and through me he conveyed the message that needed to be heard. One of the only similarities between my original 'speech' and the one I gave was this closing paragraph.
"In closing I would like to leave you all with a final thought, it is only when we submit ourselves to the Creator and follow his plan for our life that we will reach our ultimate potential. (Change) may hurt, it may break us but we can know that God will never leave us. The lessons we learn may be different from that of our neighbors and we may encounter them at different times. We may even question why God does what he does but ultimately we can know that he has a higher plan and it is only when we follow him that we can obtain it."
I hope these words can encourage you as you continue your journey through life. Don't be afraid of change! Instead, with God's help, embrace it!
Well, as I just said, my life has been changing. I believe that sometimes life get so crazy and hectic at times that it is not until we stop and look around that we actually notice how far we've come. That's how I feel. Over the course of the last year a lot of change has occurred in my life, much of which has transpired in the last couple of months.
Interestingly, a couple of weeks ago I was asked by a woman at Lake View Park Church of the Nazarene, the church that I attend while at school, to be one of three women to speak at their annual women's luncheon on May 4th. The theme of the luncheon this year was "Change" and how God has been working in our life over the last year.
In the week leading up to the luncheon I attempted on multiple occasions to write out something to say. However, it was not until the night before that the Holy Spirit inspired my thoughts and gave me a message. When I stood up to speak though in front of the group of eight-five women, the words that I heard coming from my mouth were not what I had written down the night before. I was amazing. God had taken over and through me he conveyed the message that needed to be heard. One of the only similarities between my original 'speech' and the one I gave was this closing paragraph.
"In closing I would like to leave you all with a final thought, it is only when we submit ourselves to the Creator and follow his plan for our life that we will reach our ultimate potential. (Change) may hurt, it may break us but we can know that God will never leave us. The lessons we learn may be different from that of our neighbors and we may encounter them at different times. We may even question why God does what he does but ultimately we can know that he has a higher plan and it is only when we follow him that we can obtain it."
I hope these words can encourage you as you continue your journey through life. Don't be afraid of change! Instead, with God's help, embrace it!
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
The End Of 2012 And The Beginning Of 2013
As it is now 2013, I decided to write a conclusive blog post summarizing all the significant events that occurred in my life during 2012, as well as highlighting some of the upcoming ones for me in 2013. The year 2012 held a lot of changes for me including both good ones and bad ones. Two of the most significant of these included my graduation from high school on May 9th and my graduation from Mountain View Community College on May 12th with my Associates Degree. Both of these accomplishments were special for me and it was even more meaning for me to celebrate them on the same week.
After my graduations I began considering furthering my education more and eventually narrowed my selection down to two potential school: College of the Ozarks, near Bransom MI, and Southern Nazarene University in Bethany, OK. One morning, while in the shower, I remember telling God that I was so confused about which school to choose and that I wanted him to make the decision for me. That very afternoon I received a letter from College of the Ozarks informing me that they were full for the fall semester and that I would be unable to attend. Although, the timing of this news could have been interpreted differently, I personally believe that this was God's sign, an answer to prayer, meant directly for me.
Following my graduations in May, I attended our regional Nazarene Teen Bible Quizzing event, Extravaganza at Southern Nazarene University in Bethany, Oklahoma. While there I qualified to attend our national competition and compete on our SNU B team. Although the quizzing competition was stiff I really enjoyed ending my quizzing years in this way. As an added bonus to this I was able to participate on a local team with my siblings and share many special moments with them.
When my family and I returned from our trip to the national quiz competition, things quickly kicked up a notch as my whole family began making preparations for school to start again. I began buying textbooks, making lists, planning out my schedule, and packing. Finally, the day came for my family to drive me up to Oklahoma for NSI, SNU's New Student Orientation process, and eventually my first day of school. Although it was extremely hard to leave home realizing I would not be back for a while, I was at peace knowing that I was doing God's will.
The semester started out slowly for me and often times I thought that it would last forever. Thankfully though, many of my family and friends were praying for me and reminding me that the Lord was with me all the time. As the semester began to come to a close I saw the proverbial 'light at the end of the tunnel' and I was able make a push to the finish. When the semester ended I had received seven A's!! I am so excited! It has been a great accomplishment for me to have done so well while battling the challenges of being away from home as well as a new environment, house, professors and classes.
I am excited and looking forward to starting my next semester at SNU. Once again I will be taking seven classes including three for my major, Public Relations, two music classes, private voice and choir, a required yearbook practicum, and a required religion course. Although it will be a full and busy semester I am eager to learn more and prepare for my future occupation.
I am so grateful for your prayers, encouragement and support in 2012 and I look forward to them in 2013. May the Lord richly bless you! Thank you again!
After my graduations I began considering furthering my education more and eventually narrowed my selection down to two potential school: College of the Ozarks, near Bransom MI, and Southern Nazarene University in Bethany, OK. One morning, while in the shower, I remember telling God that I was so confused about which school to choose and that I wanted him to make the decision for me. That very afternoon I received a letter from College of the Ozarks informing me that they were full for the fall semester and that I would be unable to attend. Although, the timing of this news could have been interpreted differently, I personally believe that this was God's sign, an answer to prayer, meant directly for me.
Following my graduations in May, I attended our regional Nazarene Teen Bible Quizzing event, Extravaganza at Southern Nazarene University in Bethany, Oklahoma. While there I qualified to attend our national competition and compete on our SNU B team. Although the quizzing competition was stiff I really enjoyed ending my quizzing years in this way. As an added bonus to this I was able to participate on a local team with my siblings and share many special moments with them.
When my family and I returned from our trip to the national quiz competition, things quickly kicked up a notch as my whole family began making preparations for school to start again. I began buying textbooks, making lists, planning out my schedule, and packing. Finally, the day came for my family to drive me up to Oklahoma for NSI, SNU's New Student Orientation process, and eventually my first day of school. Although it was extremely hard to leave home realizing I would not be back for a while, I was at peace knowing that I was doing God's will.
The semester started out slowly for me and often times I thought that it would last forever. Thankfully though, many of my family and friends were praying for me and reminding me that the Lord was with me all the time. As the semester began to come to a close I saw the proverbial 'light at the end of the tunnel' and I was able make a push to the finish. When the semester ended I had received seven A's!! I am so excited! It has been a great accomplishment for me to have done so well while battling the challenges of being away from home as well as a new environment, house, professors and classes.
I am excited and looking forward to starting my next semester at SNU. Once again I will be taking seven classes including three for my major, Public Relations, two music classes, private voice and choir, a required yearbook practicum, and a required religion course. Although it will be a full and busy semester I am eager to learn more and prepare for my future occupation.
I am so grateful for your prayers, encouragement and support in 2012 and I look forward to them in 2013. May the Lord richly bless you! Thank you again!
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Another Update
I apologize for not having posted an update in so long. I know it has been a long time and though I have been very busy, that is not a good excuse. Last time I mentioned that I was having some health complications and I requested your prayers on my behalf. Although I had a scheduled appointment to receive a heart monitor on September 27th I was beginning to do better my then and with my parents help I decided to postpone it and do it if it was only necessary.
I am pleased to report though that I am doing much better. Though I don't have an exact day count it was been several weeks since I have had a anxiety attack and I feel much better. Praise the Lord!
School has continued to go well. Midterms came and went will good results of all A's. Yeah!! My Professors have continued to pile on the homework and assignments since fall break and as we enter into the last six weeks of class the professors are really keeping us students on our toes.
I have continued to keep up my running. Although I am not as consistent as I would like to be, I try to get out and pound the pavement as many times a week as possible. I have found that this helps me not only physically but also emotionally and physiologically. It is a great way for me to relieve some anxiety and stress while working out.
Choir has continued to go well. Right now we are working on eight songs for our Chorale Showcase (Nov. 15) and our Sounds of Christmas concerts (Dec. 3-4). I would greatly appreciate your prayers for myself and my classmates as we continue to prepare for these big performances.
Thank you so much for all your love, prayers, and encouragement!
I am pleased to report though that I am doing much better. Though I don't have an exact day count it was been several weeks since I have had a anxiety attack and I feel much better. Praise the Lord!
School has continued to go well. Midterms came and went will good results of all A's. Yeah!! My Professors have continued to pile on the homework and assignments since fall break and as we enter into the last six weeks of class the professors are really keeping us students on our toes.
I have continued to keep up my running. Although I am not as consistent as I would like to be, I try to get out and pound the pavement as many times a week as possible. I have found that this helps me not only physically but also emotionally and physiologically. It is a great way for me to relieve some anxiety and stress while working out.
Choir has continued to go well. Right now we are working on eight songs for our Chorale Showcase (Nov. 15) and our Sounds of Christmas concerts (Dec. 3-4). I would greatly appreciate your prayers for myself and my classmates as we continue to prepare for these big performances.
Thank you so much for all your love, prayers, and encouragement!
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